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All Foundations courses by topic.


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Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

If you love someone with Borderline Personality Disorder and feel emotionally worn down, confused, or unsure of yourself, this course helps you understand why. You’ll explore common relationship patterns, emotional dynamics, and the hidden costs of always being the stabilizing one — so you can regain clarity, self-trust, and a stronger sense of where you end and the relationship begins.

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Loving Someone with Anxiety

If you love someone with anxiety and feel worn down, overly responsible, or unsure where your needs fit anymore, this course will help you understand why. You’ll learn how anxiety shapes relationships, how accommodation becomes a pattern, and how to stay compassionate without disappearing yourself — so you can relate with intention, self-trust, and steadiness.

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Loving Someone with Depression

If you love someone with depression and feel worn down, confused, or unsure how to help without losing yourself, this course will help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface. You’ll learn why depression often looks like withdrawal or anger, why encouragement doesn’t land, and how to stay compassionate without carrying the emotional load alone.

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Loving Someone with a Process Addiction

If you love someone with a process addiction and feel emotionally worn down, stuck in cycles of hope and disappointment, or unsure where you fit anymore, this course will help you understand why. You’ll explore how codependency forms, why caring turns into carrying, and how to reconnect with yourself while staying honest about what the relationship can and cannot offer.

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Here’s what our clients say.

I can honestly say that Lift has completely changed my life. When I started Lift I didn’t even know who I was as I wore masks my entire life … My relationships are currently better than I could have ever dreamed of.”

L.E. Lift Live Online Learning Alumnus

Amazing! Life transforming! Thank you so much! Thank you for this wonderful roadmap to finally learning how to provide my needs and heal my complex trauma. I’m overjoyed with gratitude. Truly transformational!”

J.O. Align With Your Needs Participant

Great course. I feel a strange sense of contentment as I work through it. Also, the feeling that someone finally understands me after years of being unsuccessful with therapy is hard to describe - it gives me hope…”

D.R. Foundations Participant: Introduction to the 12 Basic Needs

For the first time in my life, I found a community where I didn’t feel different, alone, or on the outside looking in. This program changed me and I am incredibly grateful.”

Anonymous Lift Live Online Learning Alumnus

It took me almost 6 months before I could convince myself to spend the money on this course … I can now admit it was a small investment in the future I can look forward to. If you don’t take action, nothing will change.”

K.M. Align With Your Needs Participant

Priceless! I have been searching for answers for as long as I can remember. This is the start of another path in my journey. Thanks for putting together such thoughtful and invaluable resources.”

T.C. Foundations Participant: Grief and Complex Trauma

Before I started I had no idea how to pinpoint my core beliefs, issues and thought patterns. It’s really helped me grow and given me tools to keep growing. This is what I’ve needed my whole life, and I’m so thankful.”

C.J. Lift Live Online Learning Alumnus

It was very healing for me to begin reparenting myself by working on the 12 Basic Needs I didn’t receive as a child.”

S.W. Align With Your Needs Participant

Everyone needs this course. I realize how deep my inner critic has eaten into the fabric of my soul. I got so much clarity and resources for healing through this course. Thank you so much Tim Fletcher and team.”

L.G. Foundations Participant: Quieting the Inner Critic

I felt heard. I will recommend to others. This is the missing puzzle piece in my healing journey.”

S.G. Lift Live Online Learning Alumnus

I’ve been watching Tim’s videos for a couple of years. I had worked through many things before starting … but I was stuck on some. Through this course I have made progress and will make more. It’s working.”

M.K. Align With Your Needs Participant

Finally, answers! This is a wonderful resource to help me to fully understand how my scapegoating abuse from a toxic family caused such profound angst within me. With understanding, I now have tools for healing.”

W.E. Foundations Participant: Loneliness: A Guide to Belonging Course

Must-have information for every human-being. This experience reignited the joy of life within me. I feel loved.”

E.L. Lift Live Online Learning Alumnus

This course taught me so much. I am a little sad for the little girl inside me and have more compassion for myself and others.”

N.C. Align With Your Needs Participant

What I’ve been looking for. There are plenty of resources to help you understand your issues, but I’ve really struggled finding anything that says, ‘What do I do next?’ This is the information you need to start down the path of feeling better about you.”

J.P. Foundations Participant: Running on Empty Course

This program has really opened my eyes. I still have a lot of work to do, but I now have a lot more awareness and the resources I need to continue healing.”

K.W. Lift Live Online Learning Alumnus

Amazing. I feel so much healing from this.”

R.S. Align With God Participant

Life changing … It’s so full of gems. I’ve recovered a lot through the techniques in this course. It’s extremely resourceful and also shares a bunch of resources at the end which is very generous. Forever grateful.”

R.S. Foundations Participant: The Inner Child and Me

Absolutely life changing in every way. I cannot convey my gratitude, respect and admiration enough.”

A.B. Lift Live Online Learning Alumnus

This was a real eye-opener, but even more importantly, it gives you steps to start the healing process. The bonus resources section at the end is worth its weight in gold!”

J.P. Foundations Participant: Burnout and Complex Trauma Course

This course may be harder than I originally thought but it is what I need right now. It is also filling gaps I wasn’t able to grasp during Lift participation. I gained more than what I expected. I am so glad I completed this course.”

M.R. Align With God Participant

100% highly recommended! I really loved the system and how it presents deep topics in such a clear, digestible, and empathetic way. I also appreciate the resources provided to go deeper and continue working on key points.”

Y.R. Foundations Participant: Introduction to the 12 Basic Needs

This course is excellent. I haven’t read anything quite like this material before, and it out words to my experience so I could begin to grieve what happened.”

C.R. Foundations Participant: Humiliation Trauma

This was helpful for me to understand the basics and has answered a lot of questions related to some of the underlying issues I have been living with.”

A.H. Foundations Participant: Introduction to the 12 Basic Needs

Love and compassion.. I so appreciate this course as it gives voice to long buried feelings so they can be processed and healed one day at a time.”

W.E. Foundations Participant: Grief and Complex Trauma

Thank you for this course. I could relate to a lot of it for myself & others in my life. This course gave me an understanding of why I am who I am & what I need to do to help myself heal and move forward one step at a time.”

S.L. Align With Your Needs Participant

Bite-sized and informative for the price. This course helped me understand why I procrastinate in relationships as an adult, it helped me explore my childhood and the root cause of this behavior. Thank you!”

J.H. Foundations Participant: Procrastination in Relationships

This was a great addition to talking to a counsellor in helping me navigate this ongoing situation and learning more about myself I wouldn’t have otherwise that I’m sure will reverberate into all areas of my life.”

A.G. Foundations Participant: Boundaries and Anger Course

Appropriate. A great introduction to the topic of emotional neglect. Making me aware of its impact was most helpful.”

P.C. Foundations Participant: Childhood Emotional Neglect

This is a straightforward course that gets right to the point. It is helpful to make the connection between my behavior and its origins. The self work questions and journal prompts are meaningful & I found them easy to do.”

L.C. Foundations Participant: Boundaries 101

Great compliment to what I’ve been working towards for over 10 years. When you think you’ve done all you can there always seems to be more!”

A.G. Foundations Participant: Quieting the Inner Critic

First course I have done. Very thought-provoking. You definitely need a quiet private spot to do these courses.”

C.P. Foundations Participant: Quieting the Inner Critic

A really good insight into myself and the process of boundaries with a narcissist.”

C.L. Foundations Participant: Boundaries with Narcissistic or Emotionally Immature People

Well put-together. Videos with handouts are very informative.”

C.B. Align With Your Needs Participant

Foundations course bundles.

$60 CAD

Save over 70% when you purchase all 7 Procrastination + Complex Trauma courses together.

Includes courses on Procrastination and: Work, Creative Dreams, Self-Care, Relationships, Financial Worry, Hoarding, and Healing.

$50 CAD

Save over 70% when you purchase all 6 Boundaries + Complex Trauma courses together.

Includes courses on Boundaries and:
What They Are and Why They Matter, People-Pleasing, Anger, Saying No Without Guilt, With Yourself, and Relationships.

$45 CAD

Save over 62% when you purchase all Christmas + Complex Trauma courses together.

Includes holiday-themed courses on: Setting Boundaries with Family, Navigating Triggers, Resting and Recovering, and Thinking Differently About Gifts.

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