Lift self-paced.
Healing happens in connection with safe people. The core Lift curriculum, entirely self-paced. Start today and move at a pace that feels safe for you.
$1,950 CAD • Lifetime access • 12-month payment plan available
FORMAT
Self-navigated, self-paced
START
Immediately
ACCESS
Lifetime, with Thinkific
INTENDED TIME TO COMPLETE
12 months of consistent study
COMPARE
Is Self-Paced right for you?
Self-Paced is a good fit if…
✓ You can’t commit to scheduled meetings
✓ You’d rather begin on your own
✓ You want to start right away
✓ You want to try on your own before Lift Live
Choose Lift Live instead if…
✓ You want a facilitator and group discussion
✓ You want access to the 1:1 coaching add-on
✓ You want access to optional workshops with our team
✓ You plan to continue to COMPASS or Thrive
PRICING + LANGUAGES
Enroll.
Lift Self-Paced • $1,950 CAD
✓ Instant access to all materials
✓ Lifetime access as long as you have your Thinkific account
✓ Pay in full, or start a 12-month payment plan.
✓ Payment services like Klarna or Afterpay may also be available to you.
Also available in
Translated versions are priced regionally so the program is more accessible worldwide. More languages will be released in the future based on demand.
Deutsch • 10 lessons available • $175 CAD/5 lessons • Get started
Afrikaans • 5 lessons available • $60 CAD/5 lessons • Get started
Português (Brasil) • 5 lessons available • $30 CAD/5 lessons • Get started
NEXT STEPS
How it works.
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Enroll
Choose your language and proceed to enrollment. Pick a payment option and create your Thinkific account during checkout.
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Learn at your own pace
Go through each Phase, module and lesson from the beginning. Watch the videos, work through the self-reflection questions, and use the resource lessons provided.
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Get instant access
You’ll receive all the materials right away in Thinkific. If you need to log in again, click here.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN
Two phases, 15 modules
The curriculum is the same in both Self-Paced and Live formats.
The Basics
An introduction to Complex Trauma, its characteristics, and the foundational tools for recovery. 5 modules.
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Day 1: Complex Trauma
Day 2: Mental Health
Day 3: The 12 Needs
Day 4: Intro to the Brain & Stages of Change
Day 5: The Brain & Complex Trauma
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10 Days covering The Characteristics of Complex Trauma as defined by Tim Fletcher.
You will learn about the many signs of Complex Trauma and reflect on your experience with them.
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Day 1: Emotions
Day 2: Anger
Day 3: Shame
Day 4: Grief
Day 5: Boundaries
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Day 1: Love Languages
Day 2: Levels of Relationships
Day 3: Relationship Red Flags
Day 4: Relapse Warning Signs
Day 5: Triggers, Mindfulness, and Grounding
Going Deeper
Each module explores a big topic through the lens of Complex Trauma, then self-awareness, then practical tools. 10 modules.
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Day 1: Complex Trauma Thoughts 1
Day 2: Complex Trauma Thoughts 2
Day 3: Soul Murder
Day 4: Unresolved & Unmet Needs
Day 5: Healing from Complex Trauma
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Day 1: What is Shame?
Day 2: Unhealthy Solutions
Day 3: Shame Lies
Day 4: Shame Test
Day 5: Healing from Shame
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Day 1: Anger
Day 2: Patterns
Day 3: Abuse & Characteristics of Abusers
Day 4: Unresolved Anger & Gaslighting
Day 5: Healthy Tools
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Day 1: Pain
Day 2: Guilt & Failure
Day 3: False Guilt
Day 4: Stress
Day 5: Healthy Tools
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Day 1: Conflict
Day 2: Resolution
Day 3: Resentments
Day 4: Forgiveness
Day 5: Humility
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Day 1: Family Roles
Day 2: Shame and Connection
Day 3: Codependency
Day 4: Narcissism
Day 5: Relationship Patterns
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Day 1: Enmeshed vs. Disengaged Families
Day 2: What is Love?
Day 3: Attachment Disorders
Day 4: Safe People
Day 5: When to End a Relationship
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Day 1: Boundaries Part 1
Day 2: Boundaries Part 2
Day 3: Hooks
Day 4: Why We Don’t Stick to Boundaries
Day 5: Healthy Tools
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Day 1: Many Losses
Day 2: Types of Losses
Day 3: Unhealthy Coping
Day 4: Grieving Process
Day 5: Healthy Tools
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Day 1: Unhealthy Toolbox
Day 2: Emotional Dysregulation
Day 3: Inner Child Part 1
Day 4: Inner Child Part 2
Day 5: Protectors
Here’s what our clients say.
I can honestly say that Lift has completely changed my life. When I started Lift I didn’t even know who I was as I wore masks my entire life … My relationships are currently better than I could have ever dreamed of.”
Amazing! Life transforming! Thank you so much! Thank you for this wonderful roadmap to finally learning how to provide my needs and heal my complex trauma. I’m overjoyed with gratitude. Truly transformational!”
Great course. I feel a strange sense of contentment as I work through it. Also, the feeling that someone finally understands me after years of being unsuccessful with therapy is hard to describe - it gives me hope…”
For the first time in my life, I found a community where I didn’t feel different, alone, or on the outside looking in. This program changed me and I am incredibly grateful.”
It took me almost 6 months before I could convince myself to spend the money on this course … I can now admit it was a small investment in the future I can look forward to. If you don’t take action, nothing will change.”
Priceless! I have been searching for answers for as long as I can remember. This is the start of another path in my journey. Thanks for putting together such thoughtful and invaluable resources.”
Before I started I had no idea how to pinpoint my core beliefs, issues and thought patterns. It’s really helped me grow and given me tools to keep growing. This is what I’ve needed my whole life, and I’m so thankful.”
It was very healing for me to begin reparenting myself by working on the 12 Basic Needs I didn’t receive as a child.”
Everyone needs this course. I realize how deep my inner critic has eaten into the fabric of my soul. I got so much clarity and resources for healing through this course. Thank you so much Tim Fletcher and team.”
I felt heard. I will recommend to others. This is the missing puzzle piece in my healing journey.”
I’ve been watching Tim’s videos for a couple of years. I had worked through many things before starting … but I was stuck on some. Through this course I have made progress and will make more. It’s working.”
Finally, answers! This is a wonderful resource to help me to fully understand how my scapegoating abuse from a toxic family caused such profound angst within me. With understanding, I now have tools for healing.”
Must-have information for every human-being. This experience reignited the joy of life within me. I feel loved.”
This course taught me so much. I am a little sad for the little girl inside me and have more compassion for myself and others.”
What I’ve been looking for. There are plenty of resources to help you understand your issues, but I’ve really struggled finding anything that says, ‘What do I do next?’ This is the information you need to start down the path of feeling better about you.”
This program has really opened my eyes. I still have a lot of work to do, but I now have a lot more awareness and the resources I need to continue healing.”
Amazing. I feel so much healing from this.”
Life changing … It’s so full of gems. I’ve recovered a lot through the techniques in this course. It’s extremely resourceful and also shares a bunch of resources at the end which is very generous. Forever grateful.”
Absolutely life changing in every way. I cannot convey my gratitude, respect and admiration enough.”
This was a real eye-opener, but even more importantly, it gives you steps to start the healing process. The bonus resources section at the end is worth its weight in gold!”
This course may be harder than I originally thought but it is what I need right now. It is also filling gaps I wasn’t able to grasp during Lift participation. I gained more than what I expected. I am so glad I completed this course.”
100% highly recommended! I really loved the system and how it presents deep topics in such a clear, digestible, and empathetic way. I also appreciate the resources provided to go deeper and continue working on key points.”
This course is excellent. I haven’t read anything quite like this material before, and it out words to my experience so I could begin to grieve what happened.”
This was helpful for me to understand the basics and has answered a lot of questions related to some of the underlying issues I have been living with.”
Love and compassion.. I so appreciate this course as it gives voice to long buried feelings so they can be processed and healed one day at a time.”
Thank you for this course. I could relate to a lot of it for myself & others in my life. This course gave me an understanding of why I am who I am & what I need to do to help myself heal and move forward one step at a time.”
Bite-sized and informative for the price. This course helped me understand why I procrastinate in relationships as an adult, it helped me explore my childhood and the root cause of this behavior. Thank you!”
This was a great addition to talking to a counsellor in helping me navigate this ongoing situation and learning more about myself I wouldn’t have otherwise that I’m sure will reverberate into all areas of my life.”
Appropriate. A great introduction to the topic of emotional neglect. Making me aware of its impact was most helpful.”
This is a straightforward course that gets right to the point. It is helpful to make the connection between my behavior and its origins. The self work questions and journal prompts are meaningful & I found them easy to do.”
Great compliment to what I’ve been working towards for over 10 years. When you think you’ve done all you can there always seems to be more!”
First course I have done. Very thought-provoking. You definitely need a quiet private spot to do these courses.”
A really good insight into myself and the process of boundaries with a narcissist.”
Well put-together. Videos with handouts are very informative.”
OTHER FORMATS
Want a group, facilitator and access to coaching?
Lift Live offers 75 live lessons with a small group, plus optional 1:1 coaching services on a sliding rate scale.
FAQ
Lift Self-Paced Questions.
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No, there are no additional costs to transfer over.
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You will first need to complete an intake session with one of our trusted Intake Coordinators. Once you have been accepted into the program you will be added to the program waitlist. You will be required to begin the program from the beginning as there can be much material to be uncovered during the live sessions. During your waiting period you are encouraged to continue working through Lift Self-Paced — it's a great way to prepare for class!
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This is something that we are looking to proceed with in the future. An official launch date has yet to be announced.
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No, we do require all students who are interested in pursuing the Compass program to go through our Lift Live program.
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At this time, in order to work with one of our Coaches, you are required to be enrolled in our Lift Live program. We do encourage you to work through Lift Self-Paced with a safe person within your life or a trusted professional if available.
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The biggest difference between the two programs is the opportunity to work in a dynamic group environment with the Lift Live program. There you will be working with up to ten other classmates plus a trained Facilitator, working according to your program schedule. The course curriculum (course notes) are the same between the two programs. We have included a number of additional resources and practical tools within the Lift Self-Paced program for you to work with as you go through the course.
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All our course materials are made available through the Thinkific online learning portal. There you will be able to download the course materials as they are released to you to continue to work on at your own pace.
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No, we do not offer financial aid for Lift Self-Paced at this time. If you would like to attend Lift Live, you may apply for financial aid during enrollment.
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No, but you do receive a number of exercises and materials that are from the workshops.
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No, this group is only available to those who have completed the Lift Live program.
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The price of both programs is not determined by perceived value, but what the majority of people can afford. The Lift Live program is undervalued for what is included and as compared to current-day licensed therapy session rates and other programs.
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Over the years we have had many requests for translated versions of our materials, however, we do not have the resources to make it available for all languages at this time. Some community members in countries like South Africa are subject to an exchange range that makes accessing our regular offerings near impossible. So, we strive to offer the curriculum to more people worldwide at a price that is accessible.

